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Wednesday Nov 03, 2021
Wednesday Nov 03, 2021
Would you like to attract your soul mate and marry them within one year? That’s exactly what our guest on Love University, Megan Weks, did. Megan (themanfunnel.com) is one of the top dating coaches in the US, and she shared her secrets for authentic soul mate finding on the show. Here’s what we learned:
*Date Yourself First: It’s your essence that draws a mate in—the way your heart interacts with the stimuli in the world. Start with self-analysis. Ask yourself: Do I bleed masculinity (if you’re a woman, are you leaning too much on your business and directive side during dating)? Am I too guarded? Do I express my feelings or explode emotionally? Do I believe I’m worthy of love?
*Expand Your Energetic Presence: When you go out to the world or on a date, be aware of your energetic and emotional level. If you feel anxious, pinpoint where the feeling is—perhaps your chest, stomach, or head. Then breathe deeply and visualize the tension relaxing as you extend loving and grateful energy to the person in front of you. Grow a big ball of love and gratitude inside your body and express appreciation internally for the person you’re with.
*Be Authentically Hard To Get: Be aware of when you’re coming on too strong or too needy. If you’re a woman, give the man some space for him to come toward you with his masculine push energy. When you are balanced in your intuitive nature, you will lean back when necessary (reduce expectations and neediness for the person), and give them the space to enter your zone of love.
*Create a Soul Mate Funnel: In the business world, a funnel refers to the process that businesses lead their customers through when buying products or services. As a top recruiter in the business world, Megan realized that she could apply the same “head/logical” techniques to help those desiring a soul mate. The key is to fill your romantic funnel with dates (up to 2-3 per week) so you can weed out the incompatible ones and find the compatible loving partner you deserve. In this way, the logical side of your brain can take front and center before the emotional/chemistry reactive part falls in love with the wrong person.
Yes, you can attract the love of your life in a balanced, natural, and authentic way. Date yourself first, expand your energy presence, be authentically hard to get, and create a soul mate funnel. When you do this, you will be approachable, magnetic, and a high value person. Now you can let your heart come out to play and explore favorable dating options until you meet your compatible soul mate and live your dream of love.